Free Assessment: Personalized Relationship Improvement Roadmap
For couples who want their pre-baby relationship back.
Random arguments aren't what get you where you want to go.
You're probably aware that things aren't... great. You're snapping at each other more. You're in "roommate mode." Maybe you even dread time alone, when the silence gets REAL loud. You fight when things come up, but you don't seem to be getting anywhere. How do we make real progress?
The first step is knowing what YOUR SPECIFIC relationship needs. Stop having random arguments, and start having strategic productive conversations. But which conversations? That's where this tool comes in.
Trying to fix a relationship without really understanding its unique issues is like trying to fix a car without knowing what kind of car you have.
Getting your custom roadmap is the fastest way to ensure you are having the right conversations to rebuild your bond instead of just talking in circles.
Take my free assessment to learn your relationship's PERSONAL ROADMAP to getting things where you want them to be.
Unfortunately, white-knuckling the problems won't make them go away.
The research is clear: most of the 67% of couples whose relationship goes sideways once they start parenting don't see it improve unless they take meaningful action to reorganize and rebuild.
Your relationship isn't stuck, you just need the right plan.
Parenting couples often make the same mistake: thinking their relationship won’t get better. Sometimes they think the problem is their partner, that this is just “how things are” once you are parenting, or that fixing things will take way more time and energy than they have.
They fight when fights come up, but they don’t really solve problems. They talk about their partner, instead of to them. Resentments build, hurts add up, and eventually they hit “roommate mode,” where the connection is barely there and it feels like all they do is manage responsibilities.
The idea of fixing things feels totally overwhelming, because they don’t know what steps their relationship needs them to take or where to start. They need specific instructions for their path back to a thriving relationship.
That's where this assessment comes in.
Answer a few questions, and in about 15 minutes you can see what your relationship needs for you to rebuild your connection and get things back on track, one step at a time.
Who are you and how would you know what we need?
Hi! I'm Shelley Green. I've been a mental health therapist for well over a decade, and I specialize in perinatal mental health. That means I spend hours (and hours) talking to parents about their lives. One of the things we talk most about is their relationships. Because for SO MANY parents the changes to their relationship are one of the most difficult parts of their new lives as parents. Since this is such a large part of our focus, I have developed a perspective, tools, and strategies to support parents in preserving and improving their relationship after becoming parents, and I want to share those with you. I know your relationship can be as strong (and even stronger!) than it was before you became parents.
And it starts with... knowing where to start!
